Domestic abuse does not have to be physical violence. It is any type of controlling, bullying, threatening or violent behaviour between people in a relationship.
Current statistics according to Domestic Abuse Statistics UK - NCDV shows that over 105,000 children live in homes where there is high-risk domestic abuse which is 1 in 5 in the UK. In 2025 about a third of those experiencing domestic abuse were aged 16-24.
Exposure to domestic abuse is child abuse. It can have a significant impact on a child's development, health and wellbeing. Children never just 'witness' domestic abuse.
Some young people may find it hard to identify domestic abuse having normalised this behaviour. They may have started to copy behaviours they've witnessed in their home becoming abusers themselves.
Resources and support services
- The Education People have produced guidance on the definition of domestic abuse, signs to look out for and more information on local support.
- The National Association of Head Teachers with support from the PSHE Association, has produced guidance for schools to help them review, develop and improve their approaches to preventing and responding to peer-on-peer sexual harassment and violence, including online.
- The Kent Integrated Domestic Abuse Service (KIDAS) offer a person-centred, holistic range of support services to victims and their families in Kent with resources to support this work including a presentation on domestic abuse.
- The Kent and Medway Domestic Abuse Service provides advice and information on services for victims, friends and family, and perpetrators of domestic abuse in Kent and Medway.
- The Oasis Domestic Abuse Service offers support for children and young people who have been affected by domestic violence in east Kent, Medway and north Kent.
- The Domestic Abuse Volunteer Support Service (DAVSS) is a charity in west Kent supporting men and women experiencing domestic abuse.
- The Barnardo's BeFree Positive Relationships Service is a free, commissioned initiative by Kent County Council providing targeted support, relationship education, and emotional resilience-building for young women and girls aged 10 to 18 (including transgender individuals) who are at risk of unhealthy or abusive relationships. You can reach them by phone at 01892 511468 or via email at befree@barnardos.org.uk
- Rising Sun | Domestic Abuse Charity | Canterbury & East Kent has a range of specialist services and support available for children and young people who are currently or have previously been impacted by domestic abuse in Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone and Hythe.